Wednesday Reader February 14


Sending a couple additions out on this Valentine’s Day.  Hope you enjoy!



Dear Annie:

Each Valentine’s Day, I am filled with incredible sadness.  Two years ago, my husband and I were expecting our first baby girl.  Her due date was Valentine’s Day, and we were so thrilled with love and excitement at the arrival of our baby girl.  Her name was going to be Valentine.

Sad to say, Valentine was born Feb. 14 as a stillbirth.  It was without a doubt the most difficult day of my husband’s and my lives.  We have since given birth to a beautiful boy, who has brought us joy and hope, but we will never forget our sweet Valentine.  My husband and I have gone through a lot of grief counseling together, and it has helped tremendously.  But every Valentine’s Day serves as a reminder.  How can we move past this?            — Heartbroken on Valentine’s Day

Dear Heartbroken:

I  am so sorry for your loss.  Words cannot begin to do your grief justice.  The very fact that you and your husband took steps necessary to heal is incredible.  I’m not sure that you will ever completely heal.  My guess is that there was life before you lost Valentine and there is now a sort of different understanding of life after her.

You sound like an amazing mother, wife and overall human being.  Thank you for sharing  your story.  As best you can, try to let the love of your sweet Valentine fill you up.  Her spirit remains with you and your family.  Your letter made me think of what the real meaning of love is.  One of my favorite poems comes to mind, and I will share it with you.  It is widely known as “Footprints.”  Its author has been disputed.

One night I dreamed a dream

I was walking along the beach with my Lord.  Across the dark sky flashed scenes from my life.  For each scene, I noticed two sets of footprints in the sand, one belonging to me and one to my Lord.

After the last scene of my life flashed before me, I looked back at the footprints in the sand.  I noticed that at many times along the path of my life, especially the very lowest and saddest times, there was only one set of footprints.  This really troubled me, so I asked the Lord about it.

“Lord, you said that once I decided to follow You, You’d walk with me all the way.  But I noticed that during the saddest and most troublesome times of my life, there was only one set of footprints.  I don’t understand why, when I needed You the most, You would leave me.”

He whispered, “My precious child, I love you and will never leave you, never, ever during your trials and testings.  When you saw there was only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you.”

I want to wish you and all of my readers a very happy Valentine’s Day.  Life is like a sailboat.  Sometimes it’s smooth sailing, and sometimes the weather is choppy and bumpy.  For you, my sweet mother, Valentine’s Day will always be a choppy one, but I hope you can find a bit of comfort in knowing that the love you feel for baby Valentine is true love.  What I mean by “true love” is best summed up in 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8:  “Love is patient, love is kind.  It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.  Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.  Love never fails.”

Love is all around you.  May you never feel completely alone and always know that you are loved.

~  Send your questions for Annie Lane to  COPYRIGHT 2023 CREATORS.COM
**  This column was originally published in 2019 **


This hot sauce / salsa style recipe resulted because of a product tasting opportunity at a Whole Food’s store one Saturday afternoon.  The sauce was spread on a giant chunk of avocado.  It was love at first bite!  Of course I bought a jar – plus about 10 more.

Its product name was not Jump Up and Kiss Me – that’s my title for this recipe.

Unfortunately, Whole Foods is not in my neck of the woods so the sauce was not easily accessible.  There were only 4 ingredients listed on the label of the jar.  I rolled up my sleeves and began my mission to create a similar version.  Here it is!  So easy and so very good!


  • 4 cups chopped tomatoes, ripe (Roma tomatoes are a good choice this time of year unless your grocery store has other options)
  • 5 Serrano peppers, de-seeded and tops cut off and discarded
  • 1 TBSP Sea salt
  • 1/4 cup lemon juice

Put all ingredients in a sauce pan and cook over medium-high heat, stirring frequently until tomatoes and peppers are soft.

Remove from heat and let cool.  Put ingredients in a blender and blend until all are smooth.

Store in airtight container in fridge.

Delicious “on” ideas:

  • Eggs
  • Avocado Toast
  • Tacos (any kind!)
  • Enchiladas (same)
  • Baked/Hash Browns/Mashed potatoes
  • Rice



2 replies
  1. Laurie says:

    I love 4 ingredient recipes with everything being fresh and colorful! Thanks, I’m making this. And what a great symbolic offering to emphasize the red on Valentine’s Day. 🙂
    My sister had the heart wrenching experience of losing a baby girl on the day of her birth, and she and my brother-in-law named her Miracle because she had drawn breath. Then, several years later, they had another little girl on Valentine’s Day, although they were forever changed from losing Miracle. I agree with Annie, that you never fully recover. Love to all today and everyday.

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